"What's Next?" (Daniel Ryan Day)

TITLE: What's Next: Your Dream Job, God's Call, and a Life That Sets You Free
AUTHOR: Daniel Ryan Day
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2019, (131 pages).

Transitions are a way of life. For people at particular junctures, the question of "What's Next" is particularly exciting or distressing. For Christians, another way of asking the same question is "What is God's will for me at this time of my life?" Many people have grappled with this question from different angles. This question is also related to the topics of calling and purpose in life. Author Daniel Ryan Day begins with his own story of how circumstances and choices impacted the decisions he made. He had wanted to be a professional pilot but never sent in any application to the Air Force Academy. He don't know what his future looks like and constantly seeks answers to his search for the next thing. He poses several scenarios of this predicament. If one belongs to "Team Senior," one has to decide what to do after the senior year of their academic program. If one is in "Team College," the challenge is to decide on which program of study. If one belongs to "Team Rut," then the question is how they could find a right fit between their aspirations and jobs. Those belonging to "Team Deck-of-Cards" will have to depend on what comes their way, especially unforeseen circumstances, before they decide. The rare breed of people in "Team Hero" would take care of the interests of others before their own. Using two guidelines to determine the next step, DRD looks at purpose and fulfillment as criteria for determining our calling. He calls this team as "Team Called." In order to get our spiritual bearings right, he begins with the Bible. Such calling is neither about some special "high calling" related to Church work. Neither is it about a special job. It is something way beyond our popular definitions of dream jobs and higher callings.

"Our Daily Bread Bible Sourcebook" (Dave Branon)

TITLE: Our Daily Bread Bible Sourcebook: The Who, What, Where, Wow Guide to the Bible
AUTHOR: Dave Branon
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2019, (280 pages).

Ever wanted a quick interesting snapshot not just of the whole Bible? What about having a concise introduction to every book in the Bible? That would be great isn't it? Many people know of interesting stories like the sacrifice of Isaac at Mount Moriah, the great exodus, the mighty king David, the wisdom of King Solomon, the parables of Jesus, and many more. Do we know exactly where they come from? Who were the authors? Why were the books written? When and where were they written? These questions are dealt with in this one volume called the "Bible source book." The word "source" should clue us in on what the book is trying to achieve. It is to help us go back to the origins of the Bible and to help us appreciate the ancient contexts better. By doing so, we will be more equipped with background information as we open up each book of the Bible for study or for discussion. For each Bible book, the author gives:

• A short title to summarize the theme;
• A Top Ten list of interesting facts;
• WHO wrote the book;
• WHAT the book is about;
• WHEN the events took place;
• WHY the book was written;
• WOW to show us the impact of the book in culture and society both in the past and after;
• Worth Remembering is about popular verses that inspire;
• Wonders from the past show us the archaeological discoveries.

"Along the Road" (John A. Beck)

TITLE: Along the Road: How Jesus Used Geography to Tell God's Story
AUTHOR: John A. Beck
PUBLISHER:Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2018, (192 pages).

How does one read the Bible? One can read it literally, word for word, from the lens of our contemporary backgrounds. Bibles like the NASB and the KJV would be great companions. While we honour the Word in its original syntax, we lack the cultural contexts to truly understand how the ancient audiences heard. One can read it chronologically, but it would take an experienced historian and theologian to guide us through the many centuries of events, periods, and political upheavals to appreciate the flow of the biblical story. Resources such as the chronological Bibles in which the books of the Bible are placed it according to time of occurrence. Then there are also those who try to understand the Bible archaeologically, which led to the publishing of the Archaeological Bible. There are also those who organize the Bible theologically, or topically. This enables readers to look for common themes through the Bible to have a better understanding of the biblical perspective of important matters of concern. What about understanding the Bible geographically? Though this book is not a Bible, it draws lots of biblical references to piece together what it means to walk with Jesus through the ancient lands of Israel, Egypt, Jordan, and Palestine. What is it like to walk where Jesus walked? A lot, says author and Adjunct Professor John A. Beck.

"A Woman God's Spirit Can Guide" (Alice Mathews)

TITLE: A Woman God's Spirit Can Guide: New Testament Women Help You Make Today’s Choices
AUTHOR: Alice Mathews
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2017, (224 pages).

One big question that often pops up for anyone is this: "What is God's will for my life?" In evangelical circles, one might have heard people say things like: "I heard God spoke to me" or "God told me this" or "God told me that" and so on. We are not sure exactly how those conversations between the divine and the human transpire. We are not even given a lot of details when we read Scriptures talk about how God communicated with Moses, David, Samuel, Mary, and the Early Church. Yes, there are cases of angels and voices from heaven. How can we listen more intently; hear more clearly; and understand more succinctly? Even if we have heard God's tones through various circumstances, what does it take to sustain this level of spiritual sensitivity? How could we verify the authenticity of such voices? Is there a biblical pattern we can learn from? How does God guide the New Testament women? Writing particularly to women as the audience, experienced Bible teacher Alice Mathews fills in some guidelines as to how God could guide, in a world of noise, distractions, and deceitful attractions. She helpfully distills over 12 different examples of how God leads women in the Bible. Along the way, readers would learn about women in ministry leadership; through both their abilities and disabilities; strengths and weaknesses; and especially their obedience; one step at a time.

"Despite Doubt" (Michael E. Wittmer)

TITLE: Despite Doubt: Embracing a Confident Faith
AUTHOR: Michael E. Wittmer
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2013, (192 pages).

This book is a bold attempt to repel the undercurrents of skepticism and sarcasm that surround an uncritical acceptance of science as well as a misunderstanding of doubt. Wittmer identifies two ways in which one can deal with doubts. The first is to boldly face them as "questions" to either clarify or to gain answers. Approach such doubts with courage and openness toward learning. The second is to remember that not all doubts are legitimate and thus not to be taken too seriously. Approach such doubts without fear of them trying to dislodge faith. For truth after all will not contradict itself.

Part One comprises of 12 chapters on the modern challenges to one's "belief in God." Wittmer looks at the state of skepticism in our society, that the modern man's default position is to doubt first, believe later, if not never. Such a skepticism did not happen overnight. In fact, one of the downsides of scientific advancement is the need to prove something, or to figure out something so that we can control. The trouble is, can we really prove God or figure God out on our own? From secularism breeds pluralism which seems to give equal authority to every religion. Taking a look at the phrase "leap of faith," readers learn that faith is not about believing without proof but trusting without reservation. Facts are established with a revealed knowledge. God exists not because man says so, but because God has said so. Looking at the Doug Wilson and Christopher Hitchens debate, the point is made that even the statement: "There is no God" presumes that the statement itself is a legitimate, logical, and absolute statement. In Jesus, we see who God is. In the Bible, we know that God has been reaching out to man all the time. Only through belief, one can breakout to the next level of knowledge from earthly to heavenly. Slowly toward the middle of the book, readers will detect a change of tide from doubt to faith.

Part Two turns toward asking what it means to follow God. There are at least ten reasons. We trust a God who is known. Wittmer makes a compelling statement that says: "Faith starts from assurance and proceeds to risk." A man of faith and faithfulness can achieve things beyond one's perceived limitations. Based on a promise given, there is more reason for optimism in life. Obeying God's command and following God's will are some of the desires that believers willingly do. Believers exercise faith when they answer the call of God. They produce fruit in good works. They are sustained with an assurance in God. Even the history books are filled with heroes of faith who have given us powerful testimonies of faith. For every case of doubt, there are many more cases of faith. That is why Christians need not fear doubt. They can "doubt away" knowing that if God is indeed true, there is no way any doubt can erase that truth. Doubts when approached constructively can enrich one's faith.

This book is deceptively simple. Between the pages of the brief chapters, there are lots of insights about apologetics, culture, postmodernity, spiritual disciplines, knowledge, faith, trust, hope, and many facets of the Christian life. For me,chapters 1 to 3 together are already worth the price of the book. Be free to "doubt away" but be even more free to embrace faith. Sometimes, small looking books contain the biggest gems. This is one such book.

Rating: 4.25 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Sunshine and Storms" (Susan Lenzkes)

TITLE: Sunshine and Storms: Devotions to Encourage and Comfort
AUTHOR: Susan Lenzkes
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (224 pages).

Life is like the weather. There are times of sunshine and times of rain. There are also cloudy days as well as stormy days. It is a good metaphor for life at large. In this book, Susan Lenzkes, a speaker and Bible study leader shares how God leads her through personal storms and sunshine. Sixty devotions are offered, with half on the sunshine of life and the other half on the need to stand firm during the storms. Each devotion begins with a quotation to prepare readers for what is to come. Grounded in life on earth but pointed at hope in heaven, Lenzkes reflects on how everyday life with their ups and downs, is something to be lived through, appreciated, and encouraged. She wonders aloud how Jesus living in perfect glory is willing to come down to imperfect earth and to suffer with us, and died for us that we may be "a family of shining realists." Combining some of her best devotions written and published before, this book groups the devotions in two categories. The first is about life through "Shining Like the Sun." There are lots of optimism and realistic acceptance of life. One is heavenly minded and earthly grounded, surrounded by a profound sense of realism. There are thoughts about how to name a fear and to remove the masks that prevent us from facing the truth. There is a sensitively written reflection of pain and grief for victims over the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Kenzkes meanders with readers through wounds and hurts; joys and sorrows; hurts and loss. She has a sense of life not being perfect and yet at the same time offers a way of perfect hope. She understands what it means to deal with life's pressures, enduring broken and painful relationships, and many other facets of life. The thirty devotions in the first part show readers how and what it means to continue shining in hope by investing in the promises of God through the Word.

The second part of the book takes the journey deeper a few notches. Adversity can come at anytime. Even the lack of progress can bring about moments of despair. Hurts can be very personal and deeply painful. During those times, the best way is not to read a get-fixed-fast manual, but to lament through poems, songs, and prayers. That is exactly what Lenzkes has often done in the compilation of the devotional materials. There are chapters in which the brevity itself carries a deep echo of emotions that reverberate through the day and night. It helps one wonder at the earthly situation and ponder at the heavenly hope. Readers are encouraged to cry without shame, to lament without guilt, and to cling on the the Name of Jesus. It is this second part that Lenzkes shines as a comforting guide for the discouraged and heavy-ladened. I like the way she puts it: "There is no timetables on grief," as well as the way she shows us how questions may not be answered but still be lived. She shows us how to recover hope which is often the first word dropped from the bags of the discouraged.

Perceptively written with a gentle voice, Lenzkes is able to reach out to the needy heart and walks with the readers through words of encouragement and hope. Beginning with a frank assessment of life and concluding with the birth of Christ, "Sunshine and Storms" shows us that with God all things are possible. It reminds us again that in times of trouble, we need not helplessly look at the mountains of difficulties or the abysses of pain and grief. Instead, we look to the One who is able to move mountains, blow away dark clouds of gloom, sweep the abysses of darkness with the light of Jesus. For Jesus is the True and Living Light who has come and will come again. The Word declares it. The Son lives it. The Resurrection proves it.


Rating: 4.5 stars of 5.


conrade

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"I Didn't Sign Up For This" (Aaron Sharp)

TITLE: I Didn't Sign Up for This!: Navigating Life's Detours
AUTHOR: Aaron Sharp
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (224 pages).

Life is full of detours. Many of us are ready to testify that not all Plan As work. Often, there is disappointment after disappointment causing even the most pious Christians to ask "Why God?" For some Christians, they tend to think that the Biblical characters have it better. Wrong. According to Aaron Sharp, there is a long list of "detoured lives that grace the pages of Scripture." We think of Job, Abraham, Joseph, and even David. Then there are the different kings of Israel and Judah. In this book, Sharp chooses to focus on the character of Elijah, calling him one who has traveled the most detours in his life on earth. The point is: when God leads, God is absolutely free to use our normal paths or to use detours in ways that He sees fit. We just need to keep trusting Him, even when we only have one fast emptying tank of gas left.  Before plunging into the life of Elijah, Sharp gives some helpful instructions on how to manage expectations, dealing with emotions, and coping with feelings of isolation.Now, what are the detours of Elijah's life?

Based on 1 Kings 19, Sharp guides readers through a series of emotional upheavals that Elijah faced during his time on earth. First, there is the temptation of comparison. When Elijah starts to ask if he is not better than his fathers, it comes at a point when he feels down. Amid the bravery and the courage, the prophet has even been accused of hypocrisy. Instead of recognizing the problem of his predicament is because of the evil leadership, he starts to ponder about his own sense of worth, which is completely out of sync with God's will for him. Second, during times of stress and busyness, we tend to lack a desire for self-care. During the detour, God takes care of Elijah, as God provides nourishment and food for him for a physical rest. Instead of embarking on a non-stop work until you drop scenario, God forces Elijah to rest well so that he can live stronger for another day. Unfortunately, there are times in which well-meaning servants try to find a way out of the detour instead of taking a break. Often, this is when the cancerous effect of spiritual burnout starts. Sharp then gives an 8-part spiral of rest for readers to consider. Third, detours can often be taken as opportunities to go back to basics. His taking 40 days to travel to Mount Horeb is a great reminder of how God had led Moses in the past. It is a powerful symbol of hope and assurance that it is the same God who had led Abraham and Moses, is also leading Elijah. Indeed, we often need to retrace our steps to our earlier spiritual awakening, when we feel spiritual lethargy. It can even be a way to help us navigate our way out of our theological or life's puzzles. Four, there is a need to beware of our sense of reality during a detour. We need to discern what is real and unreal. Using the story of the WWII's use of a ghost army to deceive the enemies, Sharp warns us about fuzziness in our thinking when we are down in the trenches. It takes God to wake Elijah up by asking the most basic questions of reality. "What are you doing here, Elijah?" Indeed, when we are caught in a mire, or trapped in an unexpected situation, we need to go back to the fundamentals. For anyone serving God, a disappointment may very well be a chance to ask again: "Who are we serving and why?" In detours, asking basic questions is more important than making dramatic and risky decisions. Five, for anyone on a detour, he is frantically asking for directions and will desperately seek understanding.  It is during this time that imperfect understanding can be very frustrating. The servant of God will be best to consider that God knows best; that God's grace is bigger than any detour; that God is strong and we are weak; trusting God; and depending on God to provide a helper when appropriate. Six, in a detour, we are also reminded that the world does not revolve around ourselves. It is God that we are serving, and it is God that all things ought to revolve around, including our sense of direction and purpose. Seven, detours give us a glimpse of God in a very special way. Smack in the 1 Kings 19 passage is a special literary structure often used in Hebrew writings: chiasm. The central point in the whole passage is Elijah glimpsing the presence and person of God. This makes all the difference. It is in this perspective of God, where we get a deeper sense of the God instead of the good works, of the Lover amid the loving acts, of the Guide of all guides, of the Director of all directions. For God is able to redeem us from all kinds of ups and downs; all manner of detours; and all kinds of challenging situations. We may not get all of our ways right, but God can redeem us in spite of our weaknesses.

So What?

This book is deeply encouraging and uplifting. It reminds us again that any Christian ministry is never about us, but always about God. It is also a compassionate look that during times of disappointments and unmet expectations, God is there with us and for us. In a detour, we are given an opportunity to deal with our imperfections, our inner demons, our unrealistic expectations, our theological misgivings, our trust and hope, and how we can be strengthened from doubt to faith. Aaron Sharp has brilliantly articulated the life of Elijah with powerful stories and interesting anecdotes, making this book not only an enjoyable read, but an immensely comforting book about hope and trust in God. What I find most rewarding is that personal take on what ministry is all about. As much as Christian workers and people in ministry like to claim that they are working for God, very often, it is God equipping us all to serve God in ways that God knows best. Even when our Plan A's do not work according to our expectations, each detour is often a way that God is using to draw us closer to Him; that we can learn to sense again that we need God, that God knows best, that God desires to manifest his presence to us, especially when we feel down and out.

If you are serving God in any capacity, pick up this book and read. You never know. This book may very well either save you from the next burnt-out experience or to guide you through the valley of darkness.

Rating: 4.75 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Praying the Prayers of the Bible" (James Banks)

TITLE: Praying the Prayers of the Bible
AUTHOR: James Banks
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2013, (240 pages).

The Bible is often studied and analyzed by Church groups and many Christian communities. From character studies to theological treatises, from word exegesis to thematic references, the Bible has become the sole bread and butter of everything Christianity. One of the ways that the Bible has so richly informed the Christian community is the prayers in the Bible itself. Whether it is from the Old Testament or the New Testament, it is very easy to find references to prayer in the sacred Scriptures. According to James Banks, we have much to learn from just the prayers of the Bible themselves. We can learn how Moses, Job, Samuel, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Mary, Peter, Paul, and many others pray to God. The advantages are many. We learn to stay faithful to the biblical text. We learn to pray the way that the biblical men and women of old have done. More importantly, because the prayers are so God-focused, and so natural to the human being, it is a worthwhile discipline for anyone following Jesus to learn to pray the prayers of the Bible. James Banks teach us how in this book.

The objective is simple. Make the prayers of the Bible our own. There are 9 themes that the prayers are organized under.

1. For praising and honoring God;
2. For Thanksgiving;
3. For Faith;
4. For Needs;
5. For Confession and Humility;
6. For guidance and direction;
7. For Help and Protection;
8. For Everyday Struggles;
9. For Blessings.

Each theme has a "prayer starter" for those who want a quick entry into the prayer. It also has a longer description for anyone desiring to probe a little deeper. Banks guides readers along. In fact, Banks urges readers to go beyond just remaining in any one category, but to immerse themselves widely in various categories. Believing that all Scripture is God-breathed and profitable for holy living, readers are encouraged to go deep and wide, and to pray and to bask in the presence of God as they utter the words of Scripture. There is no limit to what one can do with the prayers, simply because the prayers point one toward the Eternal and Everlasting God, Boundless, Limitless, and full of glory and grace.

Dr Banks is well qualified to share with us his experiences, having led many groups in prayer retreats, written books, as well as being involved in pastoral work. Through this book, readers from other parts of the world is able to benefit from the ministry of Banks.

My Thoughts

Use this book as a guide to praying, but do not limit yourself to what Banks is saying. Let the Spirit of God lead you to pray and also to come up with your own prayers, with the Bible as a guide. The more we pray, the more we learn. The more we learn to pray, the more we become creative in our praying. The book provides the biblical texts so that readers can use them straightaway. The main problem with books like these is always context. When we pull out verses from the Bible, we risk taking the texts out of contexts. While I am happy to recommend this book for general reference and earnest praying, I will encourage readers not to stop there, but to open up the Bible for themselves. Perhaps, let the selected verses be entries to reading and praying through whole passages, leading toward whole books, and even large chunks of Scripture.

If this book can encourage readers to desire more after God, and to study the Bible more for themselves and their communities, it will have worth every single penny for the price of the book.


Rating: 4 stars of 5.


conrade

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"The God Who Walks Beside Us" (David Roper)

TITLE: The God Who Walks Beside Us
AUTHOR: David Roper
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (136 pages).

Suffering is not an option. In fact, for anyone desiring to follow God, suffering is part and parcel of that obedience. Using biblical examples of faith during times of doubt and disappointment, Roper shows us that for every struggle that tries to hem us down, there is an overcoming that will lift us up. For every occurrence of suffering and pain, there is a promise and assurance of comfort and companionship. It is exactly this. We sense the presence of God who walks beside us, not so much during our bubbly, jovial mood, but often during times of stress and distress.

Based on the character of Jacob, this book is formerly published as "Jacob: The Fools God Chooses." Roper studies the person of Jacob, whose name essentially means "he deceives."

The biblical Jacob went through many different kinds of struggles. First, he had to endure sibling rivalry.  At first looks, Jacob seemed to be one who was cunning to deceive his elder brother Esau to give up his birthright.  The incident turned Esau from a close brother to an enemy who hunted him down. Forced to flee, Jacob discovered the presence of God who continued to walk with him, and to manifest his presence. Secondly, Jacob also had trouble marrying Rachel.  Wanting to marry Rachel, he was forced to marry the elder Leah, and had to work many years just to gain Rachel's hand in marriage. Somehow, God made Jacob wait, and in the process tested Jacob's sincerity. Thirdly, Jacob had work trouble, and pocketed nothing even after 14 years of hard labour for his uncle Laban. Fourthly, Jacob thought that he could wrestle the Lord, only to be spared. After that experience, Jacob was a changed man. Fifth, Jacob was asked to go back to Esau and be reconciled. It was the willingness to obey that demonstrated the inner quality of the man of God.

These and many more are some of the powerful insights the author has of Jacob. Filled with quotes and notable writings from Reformers like Martin Luther, converts like John Newton, spiritual writers like Henri Nouwen, C.S. Lewis, George MacDonald, and many more, Roper shows readers that suffering is not altogether a bad thing, especially if it is something that is done out of our obedience to God. In fact, with each suffering, with each trial, believers going through the hard times will get a special opportunity to experience God's grace and deliverance. Not only that, there are powerful spiritual lessons that can only be learned through the school of hard knocks.  Roper observes:

"God will use anything to get our attention. It may be, as it was with Jacob, a change affecting a relationship—a much-loved child turning away from us, a long-term marriage unraveling, an old friendship fading away. It may be some prize we attain that leaves us feeling dissatisfied and empty, or something we lose that leaves us brokenhearted. It may be a change we cannot avert or a circumstance we cannot change. But whatever comes our way, we can be sure God’s love is behind it, helping to pry our fingers loose from this decaying earth and drawing us toward Him and our eternal home. When our hearts respond to God’s call, however, we can be sure of opposition."

With God's call, there will be opposition as the believer obeys. Yet, the presence of hostility and trial guarantees something far more precious: God's presence. This is something that Jacob experiences over and over again. Toward the end of the book, Roper becomes even more reflective of our modern world and his own experiences. He encourages readers to learn to accept trials graciously, putting bitterness aside. Take small steps forward. Resent not. Complain little. Trust God. Above all, if believers can learn to look beyond the suffering, see the bigger picture of faith, wear the lens of hope at all times, and most importantly, to sense the presence of God, they will be most blessed. As I read this book, I am reminded too of Jesus' words about how blessed we will be when we are persecuted for righteousness sake, for the sake of the gospel, for the sake of Christ, for we will be comforted. Comforted with God's presence.

Today is Good Friday. This book is an apt reminder of Jesus, who did not get the benefit like us. God the Father turned his face away in his deepest hour of need. All for the love of us. It is because of this sacrifice, God raised Jesus from the dead, and we as believers, will get to experience always, the presence of God who walks with us, whether we know it or not.

Rating: 4.5 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Doing Well at Being Sick" (Wendy Wallace)

TITLE: Doing Well at Being Sick: Living with Chronic and Acute Illness
AUTHOR: Wendy Wallace
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2010, (240 pages).

We have all experienced terrible illness from time to time. It can be a simple bout of flu, or a tummy ache. It can also be due to some accidental fall or a crazy migraine. Usually we get well. With medication, we can often deal with the symptoms and with rest, to let our bodies take care of the longer term healing. What if chronic illness hits us? What if the cherished recovery takes so long time to come, that we fear it may never ever come? What if the sickness is so bad that we not only struggle with pain and depression, we lose our hope to live? What if you get not just one sickness, but multiple problems plaguing you over and over again? By the age of 47, Wendy Wallace has gone through heart attacks, lung cancer, chemotherapy, lupus, arthritis, colon cancer, multiple surgeries, and several more ills. It seems too terrible to be even true, but yes. Wallace lived through it all and from the depths of her despair and the heights of her hope through faith in God, she has given us a book to share her journey with. In this book, she deals with questions like:

• Where and how do we find strength in our weakest moments? 
• What about the guilt that patients feel when they see their family members, loved ones, and caregivers suffer because of them?
• Where is God when everything seems to be going wrong?
• How can family members cope?
• What about cases when medical professionals make mistakes?
• What can we do to assist the healthcare given to us?

This book is soaked with the author's experience through her own physical ailments. Just seeing how Wallace was able to overcome the many struggles through illnesses from A-Z already humbles any reader. Yet, she points out that although she is a person with many illnesses, these illnesses do not define her. It is God who defines her. With that knowledge, she is able to develop an attitude of gratitude away from self-pity to other-centered; to spend whatever gifts and time she has wisely, instead of complaining about the things that she does not have. Readers will learn about the relationship with our caregivers and our families. Sometimes, it is our own family members who are having a harder time grappling with our own illnesses. The part about shifting our trust from self to God is soul warming. While humans tend to think short term, God is mindful of all terms. Whatever God does, is always for the eternal good. In illnesses, we learn what being broken and trusting in a more unique way.

The book also deals with how patients can relate to their doctors, even though some doctors are downright arrogant, to the point that their actions may endanger their very patients they are supposed to help. The key is to work together, and not totally (or foolishly) think that doctors are our saviours. They are not. They make mistakes too. By working with them, patients can take responsibility for their own health too. She even goes through a list of the different kinds of doctors who are specialized in very specific areas. Know what is an Otolaryngologist or Nephrologist? There is also a chapter on how to work with hospitals, and to be prepared with a medical list of essential information so that medical professionals can react rapidly to time-sensitive emergencies. The last three chapters of the book will be helpful to those who are going through pain and physical suffering. Physically and practically, Wallace shows us how to live with pain, from pain relief to self-care; from preparation to actual implementation; from moaning about our pain to trusting in God. Mentally, she gives tips on approaching life with a more positive attitude, one that is mature and life-giving not just to self but also to others. Spiritually, she shows us what she has done in her journey of faith and trust, meditating on Scripture.

There are many precious gems in the book.

• "Most medical personnel work extremely hard to keep us as healthy as possible. But they all make mistakes along the way, and we need to forgive them.."
• "Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of what you already have."
• "One of our tasks in learning to live well is to learn the truths that will set us free to be well in sickness."
• "In all of life’s difficult situations, God often allows us to stew in these stages until we are ready to accept the fact that He has been in control all of the time."
• "If I had simply acknowledged that God was in control of my life and looked for His lesson in the situation, I would have moved more quickly out of my grief to a place of contentment. Instead of asking, “Why did this happen?” I should have been asking, “What do you want to teach me now, Lord?” I had no way of knowing God’s plan for my future, but I could have simply trusted that He had one that was being worked out."
• "We search for happiness through fame, fortune, serial relationships, and acclaim. Yet daily we read reports of the suicides of rich people, the painful ending of yet another celebrity marriage, or the downward spiral of someone who was once at the top of whatever game he or she played. The “saints and poets” Wilder writes about have the opportunity to “realize life” because they see their lives through God’s eyes. God clearly teaches us that “me first” always leads to despair, and the only important thing we do with our lives on earth is to love God and others."
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If you are sick, or know someone who is sick, this is one book that you must pick up. Wallace covers a lot of areas, but one big area that will need more coverage is in the area of finance. As many societies around the world age, and with the costs of healthcare going up every year, chances are, financial pressures are going to impact our overall state of health too. Sometimes, the lack of money or the stress of it all only goes to make one more ill. Health is a big area of concern for many. In the Bible, healing is understood more of being made whole rather than just a specific area of cure. Healing is about the whole person, not just a discrete part of our body. This book, though not a full healing manual, points us to a wide variety of areas that we can pay attention to. Ultimately, there is a need for hope, that is regardless of positive or negative prognosis. Even if one has only a few months left to live, if one can make these remaining months count, that will be a life more well spent. A healthy person may have many more years to live, but if his life is without purpose or hope, without meaning or love, is that life a better one? 

Let me close with a quote from Mitch Albom's "Tuesdays with Morrie."

“So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.”

Rating: 4.75 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Utmost" (Oswald Chambers)

TITLE: Utmost: Classic Readings and Prayers
AUTHOR: Oswald Chambers, (edited by James Reimann)
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (112 pages).

A classic will continue to be revered through the ages, in many different forms and formats. Since 1927,  "My Utmost for His Highest" has been re-published many times due to popular demand. This testifies to the power and durability of the devotionals which are often thought provoking, but always Christ honouring. It challenges readers to give of their utmost, to let the devotional be a challenge each day. This book attempts to bring together 90 of Chambers's best devotions. Each day, the devotions begin with a Scripture verse and end with a prayer. It creates a context for thinking and followed by a challenge to apply. It calls for surrender. It pleads for constant remembrance of the call of God for us. It points to Jesus as the Author and Finisher of our faith. In just a page a day, readers will find that there is no need to hurry through the words. Its brevity invites quiet reflection. Its depth creates ripples of spiritual movements. Its simplicity and directness gives readers a quick understanding of what the text is saying. Its challenges remind readers that following Christ means giving our utmost for God's highest.

With this small book of devotions, even for the busy professional, devotions are not only made easier, it becomes an enjoyable experience. The selections are quite wide in covering the ups and downs of the spiritual life. In 90 days, we get a glimpse of each. Read through the devotional and grow spiritually.

Rating: 4.5 stars of 5.

conrade

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"It Is Well With My Soul" (Shelly Beach)

TITLE: It Is Well With My Soul:Meditations for Those Living with Illness, Pain and the Challenges of Aging
AUTHOR: Shelly Beach
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (240 pages).

This book takes the same title of the world famous hymn by Horatio Spafford. Like Spafford who struggles a lot with the loss of his loved ones, the author struggles a lot with the loss of her mental faculties. Reflecting on her own neurological condition, whether it is stroke, aneurysm, or cancer, the author enters into a time in and out of hospitals, in and out of consciousness and unconsciousness, and face to face with the deep personal loneliness, and yet still able to experience the divine presence of God. Through her process, Beach encounters grief, anger, depression, joy, grace, and the role of advocates. She plumbs the deepest valley of despair and also experiences the high mountains of hope. The book parallels the hymn, "It is Well with My Soul" through six reflections.

The first reflection is about "Devastation, Doubt, and Deliverance," of seeing how Spafford grapples with the reality of loss and pain, and how Beach personally experiences physical pain, and how it affects faith and doubt. Each brief reflection comprises a personal journey through a particular emotion, followed by an honest appraisal of her spiritual walk with God. There is a prayer to surrender to God's mercy. Each chapter ends with two questions to grapple with the hard questions of life.   The second reflection is on the trials of pain, the temptation of doubt and denial, and the triumph of faith and belief. The third section deals with searching for meaning amid the depression, stretching one's prayer and faith as the trials are extended, and realizing the significance of hanging on to God in prayer. Life seems so unfair when after her earlier discharge from hospital in 1999, her long distance travel, her parents' health all increase her stress level, leading her toward anger and being overwhelmed. The fourth section deals with family, forgiveness, and freedom. She learns that it is only through forgiveness and gratitude that one can shape relationships. She relates how her faith in God helps her to forgive others because she had first being forgiven. Prayers of desperation are also called "Fed-Ex Prayers."

Beach learns several spiritual disciplines as well. Such as learning to notice the ordinary people placed before her each day, or the opportunity to give away material goods to bless people, or to renew past connections, and many more. Section Five talks about "help, heartache, and heaven," which is a journey trust from despondency to dependency, from feeling alone to experiencing the presence of heaven. Section Six concludes the book with the need to avoids lies, to begin legacies, and to learn to let go.  The Appendices at the back of the book offer great tips on prayer, resources for help with regards to healthcare, a bibliography of books about physical and spiritual health, how to cope with stress and tips on hospice.

We will all age one day. Each of us has to carry our own cross, travel our own journey, and experience our own ups and downs. There is no short-cut in the reality of life. To go through the trials and at the end of it all, still able to say, "It is Well With my Soul," is not simply a brave attempt to keep up a stoic front. It is a posture of quiet trust, of growing faith, and of eternal hope that is anchored on the One and Only Saviour of the world, Jesus. A book of this nature is not an easy one to write. Readers can easily sense the agony and the pain the author goes through. At the same time, there is a strong desire that believes that one day, it will all be over, and it will all be revealed that it is God who will make all things news, and all things whole.

Rating: 4.25 stars of 5.

conrade

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"In Quietness and Confidence" (David Roper)

TITLE: In Quietness and Confidence
AUTHOR: David Roper
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 1999, (third printing, 2012).

This is collection of thoughts and devotions from a man to men. Taking the idea from Pascal's Pensees, these 'random thoughts' constitute 31 short devotions that encourages readers, especially men to be in the presence of God, and to experience quietness and confidence, just like the prophet Isaiah in Isaiah 30:15. Like sitting on the river's edge of a trout stream in Boise, Idaho called the "South Fork," a favourite haunt of fly-fishing enthusiasts. It is a quiet place for a noisy world.

There are many different spiritual dispositions that are familiar to the general make up of the masculine gender. Things like quietness and being people of few words; or the need to work with our hands, to make a living; or the tendency to prefer the laid-back posture rather than the up-front position. Of course, there is some generalization going on, but then, I find it mostly true among my friends and even for my immediate father and grandfather figures. They have left an impression on me that men speak relatively less than the women folk. When they do speak, the words can be weighty. Each day, Roper begins with a quote an a Scripture verse to prepare our souls for a devotional journey. Often leading with a story, the passage is not heavy on analysis but focuses on reflection of life, especially spirituality. He lets the piano key F leads in reflection the struggle between our natural tendency to do wrong, and our spiritual desire to do right. He retells the Old Testament stories with a freshness that holds readers' attention, like the dramatization of the Amalekites fighting the Israelites led by Moses, leading us to the grand moral of the story to address the root, not the symptom, the evil puppeteer and not the deceptive puppets. Roper also relates Tolkien's The Hobbit to everyday life, to be more aware of our role and our calling. Readers will be glad to see the wide range of applications and the hugely sensitive understanding of the ups and downs of life. Topics like suffering, trials, discouragement, and denials, are tackled with gentle encouragement, discipline, and hope. He even teaches readers how to read the Bible!

Filled with wise quotations from well-known authors, poets, musicians, Bible characters, theologians, and many more, this devotional packs a punch. Roper's gentle commentary is a welcome voice in this crazy busy world, where the only time we have is to say that we are busy, or we have no time. Taking one devotional a day, the same book in 1 month, readers have the opportunity to say NO to the senseless and frenetic demands of this world, and to say YES to the Spirit, to the Word, to God, that one will be able to go through life, in quietness and in confidence.

Hint: If you rush through this book, you may very well be struggling with rushing through life. Resist that. Gently go through this book and feel the difference, like sipping and savouring a nice cup of Latte, instead of gobbling down a cup of instant coffee. There is always time to do good things. Reading this book patiently is one of them.

Rating: 4.5 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Creation Sings His Praise"

TITLE: Creation Sings His Praise: 90 Devotions on Nature from Our Daily Bread
AUTHOR: Dave Branon, editor
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, (128 pages)

We all like to have devotions. Where do we start? How we we begin to sing our praises? Is there a way in which we can jump-start our devotional lives amid a land deluged with technological devices and modern landscapes? The solution: Return to nature. Reflect on creation. Refresh ourselves with a deeper appreciation of what God has done, what God is doing, and what God will be doing for us, and for the world around us. With 90 devotions that cover nature such as plants, animals, and scenes of natural beauty, readers are given an amazing spectrum of seeing ordinary creation with the eyes of faith and a heart of gratitude. Each devotion begins with a "Guidebook reading" from the Bible. A key passage is selected and printed for readers to meditate upon. Following that, a short devotion in the style of OUR DAILY BREAD is provided. In easy reading style, it gently helps readers to take a longer pause to see the wonders of creation. It invites readers to linger on, letting the beauty of nature be soaked in the riches of Scripture.Finally, a COMPASS POINT is a brief challenge for readers to think about. It is kind of a 'thought-of-the-day' statement where readers can easily remember and keeping pondering through the day. Of course, if one were to rush through it, one would miss important details and nuances of creation.

This is a delightful devotional book to quieten the soul from the oft-stated busyness of life. Drawn from the rich resources of the OUR DAILY BREAD publications over the years, it compiles devotions specifically with nature in mind. The high quality photographs alone are worth the price of the book. In fact, there is much to learn from the small call-out boxes that educate readers on some scientific or natural knowledge. For instance, about 20000 species of mantises worldwide, or how to keep a skunk, or the more than 80 animals that make Northern Minnesota their home. If you are a nature lover, this book will bring winsome smile often. If you are someone new to nature watching, this book can launch you forward. If you are feeling too rushed or busy, especially during this festive season, this book is a perfect gift not just for yourself, but also for people that you may know who needs to take a good break from work. Maybe, for those you know who are on social media too much, this book in printed form, is a great freshener that reminds us that life is more than simply being connected to the Internet.

Ratin: 4.75 stars of 5.

conrade

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"Adventuring Through the Bible" (Ray C. Stedman)

TITLE: Adventuring Through the Bible: A Comprehensive Guide to the Entire Bible
AUTHOR: Ray C. Stedman
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2012, new enhanced edition, (941 pages).

I have always been a fan of this book. Since its publication of the first edition, this book has been one of my prized references whenever I do any Bible survey classes or teaching curriculum.This new edition presents more publisher initiatives like:

• new Bible reading plans;
• additional timelines of major Bible events;
• Topical lists for study;
• Discussion guides
• Personal application questions
• Maps, images, and many more.

It is essentially an updated look of the original edition without changing much of the late Stedman's content. Part One brings together the series of sermons Stedman had given in the years 1963-1964. It shows readers the goal of the Bible. The purpose is knowing God, our life's purpose, and faith through the good news. From Genesis to Revelation, Stedman leads readers through a panorama of the Old Testament and New Testament, with stories and examples from contemporary life to highlight the relevance to our world. The conviction is that God has spoken in the past as well as in the New Testament present. God is always speaking. The question is, are we listening?

Part Two encourages readers to take the five steps to maturity using the first five books of the Old Testament, or commonly known as the Pentateuch. Genesis represents the beginning of faith, after the fatal act of disobedience by Adam and Eve at the Garden of Eden. The essence of Genesis is that man can do nothing without God. Man need God more than the other way round. Exodus represents God's attempt to deliver Israel from slavery. The redemption theme is strong. Leviticus focuses on purity and wholeness, where the laws, the rituals, and the disciplines, are meant to help, not harm the people. Numbers points the reader to see the victory amid the disciplines and the setbacks faced. Deuteronomy wraps up the chronology of the entire redemption plan, with the law the strongest evidence yet of God's love.

Part Three covers the history of Israel and its neighbours through Joshua, Judges, Ruth, l and 2 Samuel, 1 and 2 Kings, 1 and 2 Chronicles, Ezra, nehemiah, and Esther. One motivation to read and learn from the horrible events, the historical tragedies and sad events, is to make sure that readers do not repeat the mistakes made. It is also to give thanks to God for being the consistent rescuer despite the rebellion of the people.

Part Four introduces the wisdom books. Calling it a "music to live by," it goes through five poetical books of Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and the Song of Songs. Relationships are not things that can be solved. Sometimes, they need to be expressed through lament, through music, through singing, through poetry. It is the "heart cry of humanity." Above all, the gist is that no matter what, humans can call out to God in purely ordinary human expressions.

Part Five is the part on the prophetical books. Called the "promises of God," it gives readers a fresh lens to see the major and minor prophets from the eyes of promise. The greatest promise of all, is of course the coming of the Messiah, of Jesus. What is remarkable is that despite the bleak events that Israel had suffered, the exiles, the persecutions, and the endless losing battles, there is a promise of hope in one Saviour.

Part Six begins the survey of the New Testament. It takes a look at the Apocrypha, the gospels and Acts, to show us the person of Jesus Christ. The conviction is that the focus person in both the Old and the New Testament is Jesus Christ. The reason why the Apocrypha has been excluded from the Protestant canon is because it does not fit into the overall theme of the Bible.

Part Seven details the letters of Paul, how the Church is encouraged to hang on to the faith amid the persecutions and the false teachers. The purpose of divine revelation is essentially the transformation of human lives. Stedman affirms Paul's epistles as letters that not only bring together the theological themes of the Bible, but it leads Christians to experience the grace of God in Jesus Christ personally, and with one another in the Christian community.

Part Eight is about "keeping the faith," through Hebrews, James, 1 Peter, 2 Peter, the letters of John and Jude. Here is when the going gets tough, faith keeps the faithful going. It is a time to encourage the people to be living stones for God, to put faith into action, to live authentically, to stand up for the faith, and to be counted for God.

Part Nine is specially reserved for Revelation. It too brings together the beginning as well as the end, showing readers again that God has revealed Jesus, and will continue to reveal as the end times approach. 



My Thoughts

As with the title of the book, this is about "adventuring" through the ancient Bible, about the Living Word made even more alive in our modern contexts.  Clearly written, coupled with lots of diagrams, illustrations, summary boxes, it encourages readers to want to read the Bible more. One of the strong points in this book is the frequent summaries of different Bible contexts, movemenets, timelines, cultural nuances, and stories. It gives readers additional tools to use when it comes to analyze, to study, and to apply the Word of God. It is useful as a teaching tool to guide new believers and eager students to understand the overall focus of the Bible. Sometimes, it is hard to tell which part of the book is written by Ray Stedman, which by Elaine his wife, or by unnamed individual(s) in the publishing house. For example, since Ray died in 1992, there is no way he had written about the story of 9/11 in the book. Books of this nature can also suffer from reductionistic tendencies. This is the inherent weakness in any attempt to summarize anything.

That said, if this book can drive one to study the Bible more for themselves, it would have worth the price of the book. Stedman says it well. The Bible is an adventure of faith. That is why, adventuring through the Bible is an apt title that will stick. I thank the Lord for this servant, who has given the Christian world a valuable asset to use, in the study of the Bible. With this book in hand, there is no way Bible study can be boring.


Rating: 5 stars of 5.

conrade

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"God's Thrifty Extravagance" (Jonathan Kopke)

TITLE: God's Thrifty Extravagance: Understanding What the Bible Says About Money
AUTHOR: Jonathan Kopke
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2011.

This book deal with one of the most important topics taught in the Bible: Wealth and Money. Kopke begins the book with a fascinating look at the paradoxes of life. Like a puzzle placed before mankind, there are statements from the Bible that appear at first look to contradict one another. One example is with regards to money and the handling of money. On the one hand, there are verses like Proverbs 10:22 that raise the happiness of having wealth. On the other hand, there is Jesus teaching us that with increased wealth comes increased difficulty in entering the kingdom of God (Matt 19:23). The key thesis for Kopke is that we need to learn to hold both truths TOGETHER. Both are true and are 'really two sides of the same coin.' What to man is paradox is from God a guideline to help man live.

He then applies this idea to five financial issues: owning, saving, borrowing, giving, and spending. At the end of each chapter, Kopke highlights some things that we can freely give in 'Loose Change' and how we can carefully steward the use of wealth through 'Negotiables.'

A) OWNING

The amazing paradox is that even though God owns everything, he has given man dominion over all the earth! Such a thought should guide the way in which we own things lightly rather than tightly. We need to be trustworthy stewards of earth's resources. Kopke suggests that such a perspective can guide our fundraising efforts that are free from manipulative methods, to be wise in our budgeting, and to be ready to learn more about ourselves as money unmasks our true selves. Our idea of owning needs to be furnished with giving, simple living, and the cultivating of thankfulness.

B) SAVING

The key point here is to adopt a balanced approach with wise savings on the one hand and generous giving on the other hand. We need to distinguish between hoarding and savings, for it is the attitude of the heart that is important. We save not for ourselves but for the good of the community. Being thrifty does not mean becoming cheap. Saving wisely needs wisdom from above. 

C) BORROWING

The main point is to learn how to practise biblically acceptable borrowing. It is important to see how the rich rules over the poor over money matters. How can one avoid borrowing beyond one's ability to pay back? Debt management is an increasingly important matter. Is usury a Christian thing to do?  Is debt evil? Kopke makes an interesting word study on the Latin word 'exculpatory loan' which is the biblical idea of loans. For example, this can be understood through the combined use of 'mortgage' and 'home loan.' In a home loan, the bank loans the money. The mortgage acts as an agreement to use the house as a collateral to guarantee the payback of the home loan. This makes the borrowing biblically acceptable. There are other issues which are not so clear cut, like borrowing money to pay medical bills, etc. Such things are deemed 'desperate borrowing' which can be an exception. Kopke provides ideas regarding thrift, self-restraint, reasonable interest rates, and co-signing a loan.

D) GIVING

Why give to God when God already owns all things? This is because God cares about us and about how money can easily take a hold on us. God wants to free us from the tyranny of materialism. Through giving, we rein in money taking over our lives. Money is 'always barking orders' for us to buy stuff.  Giving enables us to use money to serve God, and to live free of the control of money. What makes giving most honourable is cheerful giving. This is the key to giving. We can learn to give in several ways, one of which is tithing. Kopke spends quite a lot of time on this. In the Old Testament, tithing is not just a one time giving, but involves several tithes.  In the New Testament, we are taught to give freely and cheerfully. Give whatever we can is the guideline. Application wise, Kopke deals with some questions about tithing which is very helpful. The tip is this:

".. bringing God the first of everything is to bring him the best of everything." (92)

E) SPENDING

Here, Kopke uses the story of the three little pigs to teach biblical spending and lifestyle choices. He urges us to avoid the excesses of the House of Bricks and the House of Straw, by learning to settle on the moderate ground: House of Sticks. More importantly, he draws us back to Jesus, that Jesus is not talking about money and possessions per se, but the kingdom of God. This means that we spend in a way that glorifies and expands the kingdom of God. Distinguish needs from wants. Check our motives. Trace backward to motives, and forward to ministry opportunities. 


Closing Thoughts

This book is big on applications and strong in tackling the questions surrounding the use of money and wealth. It does not delight on bashing the rich or ridiculing the poor. What it does is to highlight the different perspectives of truths so that we can appreciate all of them as one whole. We are urged to use money freely without guilt, owning in moderation, borrowing responsibly, saving wisely, giving with joy, and spending with caution. We are free to do all these. This is where Kopke leaves us. This attitude of freedom is aptly described by the Dutch theologian, Eberhard Arnold.

"The drifting balloon is not free. There is no freedom in being stirred by every opinion, steered by every spirit of the times, governed by every urge of instinct. Freedom is there only where a holy moral imperative and a mature will can show us the way we must steer our lives." (130-1)

We are free to own, to save, to borrow, to give, and to spend. This is because God has given us freedom to live. The best way we can glorify God and to express our deepest gratitude is to use money for the glory of God, instead of possessing money for the glory of man or the gratifying of the flesh.


Rating: 4.25 stars of 5.


conrade

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"Different Dream Parenting" (Jolene Philo)

TITLE: Different Dream Parenting: A Practical Guide to Raising a Child with Special Needs
AUTHOR: Jolene Philo
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2011, (336 pages).

This book is an excellent resource for parents of children with special needs. It is specially arranged to aid the readers from birth to death. Section 1 deals with the shock and trauma when a child has been diagnosed with some physical ailments. Called 'Diagnosis,' it gently encourages parents to move from a state of being 'ambushed' by the news to becoming 'advocates' for their child. Section 2 covers the various aspects of life when the child has to spend time in the hospital. Called 'Hospital Life,' it attempts to guide parents to move from 'confused' state of lostness, to a more 'confident' stance of knowing what to do in the midst of the emotional anguish. Section 3 is entitled 'Juggling Two Worlds' which is a brilliant section of the book that attempts to bring some state of calm to families wherever they are. The author sensitively and meticulously works through the different aspects of life that needs to be calmed. For instance, activities and programs are suggested on how to bring calm to the family, to extended family, at work, and at other places. Section 4 moves on to 'Long Term Care Conditions' which tries to move readers from trepidation about the future to a victorious spirit of triumph. Section 5 is a difficult section that deals with the loss of a child. I find this section particularly touching and hard to go through. Thankfully, the book is sensitive to provide time to reflect, and at the same time, offer readers the freedom to move forward boldly. It uses extensively Elisabeth Kubler-Ross's stages of grieving model. Section 6 is called 'Raising a Survivor' which gives hope to people to be fearless at life.

Throughout the book, the chapters follow a strategic pattern. Typically, it begins with a Bible passage and a short quip from someone who has gone through the particular stage. Several stories are printed to give readers an idea of some real life examples of parents of special needs children. It points out possible traps that prevent parents from moving toward a healthy direction. It provide medical tips, help resources, web references, community links, professional advice as well as spiritual comfort. There are many moments in which the reader is invited to ponder a particular question about the meaning of it all, and calms the reader down with biblical promises. Adding to the already excellent resources are some prayer helps to guide readers through the different stages of difficulty.There are prayer guides for dependence, during hospital stays, praying for families, for educators, therapists, grieving families, children, and their character.

This book is so comprehensive that it is a must-have in the bookshelves of health professionals, counsellors, chaplains, ministry workers, and many help personnel.  One can wait until a problem arrives before reading this book. Even for those of us who have not encountered a parenting challenge that requires 'different dream parenting,' there are at least two powerful reasons to read this book. Firstly, it enables us to appreciate your children even more. Secondly, we learn to be more sensitive to parents with special needs children. If you are a Christian, I add in a third reason.God can use you to help others, and share hope.

Rating: 4 stars of 5.

conrade

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Book Review: "The Roller Coaster of Unemployment"

TITLE: The Roller Coaster of Unemployment: Trusting God for the Ride
AUTHOR: Sarah Hupp
PUBLISHER: Grand Rapids, MI: Discovery House Publishers, 2010, (160 pages)

This is a difficult time for many people. The economy is weak. Unemployment is rising. Trust in the government is failing. Hopes for the future are falling. People of faith are trying to hang on. This book is one such resource to encourage people to hang on to hope. Most crucially, it urges readers to hang on to God.

Using the metaphor of a rollercoaster, Hupp accompanies the reader through the proverbial ups and downs of life, the highs and lows, the joy of being employed, and the agony of being laid off. Like the start of a rollercoaster ride, the author begins with 'climbing the heights.' During times of being employed, one tends to become overconfident of job security. One spends time making money, and unwittingly pushes to the background the more important things in life. During such a time, one is vulnerable to sudden changes, especially unexpected ones. Part Two is where the roller coaster of unemployment really makes its presence known. In 'Whoosing down the hill, one faces the distressing emotions of losing a job. More crucially, one's faith gets tested. Failure and fear become dominant and try to usurp the hopes of the retrenched. In Part Three, the journey continues through 'Loop the Loop' where the winding experience plays through anger, discouragement, careless words, and puts one face to face with God. Instead of turning up, Part Four leads the reader through a dark tunnel. Here is where good and bad feelings are mixed together. On the one hand, one looks for God's guidance. On the other hand, there is the human tendency to worry. Yet, in the midst of the confusing signals, there is still an opportunity to do good, to be generous, to be hopeful. Part Five is where the recovery begins. In 'The Bunny Hills,' the author encourages the reader to hang on to hope, that God is looking for us. There are promises of blessings, of encouragement, of God intervening at the right moment. As the rollercoaster ride nears the end, Part Six is where one goes back to the station. The hands that gripped the handrails slowly relax. The thrill has ended. The tough periods are over. It is time to rest in God's providence. In other words, unemployment itself has a definite end. For God is in control.

My Closing Thoughts

This is a very creatively thought out book about encouraging the unemployed with faith and hope in God. With great compassion and understanding, the author literally accompanies the reader through the emotional ride over the entire journey. Beginning with a brief explanation of the phases of employment and unemployment, the Hupp recognizes the spectrum of emotions that arise through each particular phase of the rollercoaster ride. Packed with biblical references, stories of real people, and a helpful checklist for reflection at the end of each chapter, the book is a great companion for people who have been laid off, or looking for a job. More importantly, this book shows the way toward something better than a mere job: Hope.


Rating: 4 stars of 5.

conrade

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